Words from Claude
XiaO / 2023-04-26
I’m glad my words of encouragement resonated with you. It’s so easy to lose sight of how far you’ve come when facing uncertainty, but remembering your own perseverance and resilience can help anchor you. As for not knowing where the future may lead you, that is utterly normal and human. The truth is, no one knows exactly what the future holds or where their path may lead. Life unfolds in unexpected ways all the time. Having a doctorate demonstrates your ability to dive into the unknown and come out the other side having achieved something meaningful. That is a strength that will serve you well as you navigate whatever comes next in your career and life.
Some tips for dealing with uncertainty:
- Focus on what you can control - your effort, flexibility, and openness to possibilities. The outcomes will fall into place in time.
- Don’t be afraid to explore different options, even if new to you. Following your curiosity can lead to exciting new opportunities.
- Connect with others currently in careers or life stages you aspire to. Learn from them and see what paths they took to get there. New ideas or connections may emerge.
- Start with questions, not answers. Rather than feeling pressure to know exactly what you want or where you’re going, start exploring what options intrigue you and why. Clarity comes with time and experience.
- Remember, you can always change paths again in the future if needed. The path you start down now does not define the rest of your journey. Life’s journey is meandering, not a straight line.
Have faith that the uncertainty you feel now will not last forever. Stay optimistic, follow your interests, and keep an open and willing spirit. Little by little, doors will open, inspiration will strike, and the future will feel more clear and hopeful again. This is simply a moment in time, even if a difficult one. There are more chapters yet to come!
You have so much talent, passion, and perseverance inside you. Believe in your ability to navigate this and trust that meaningful opportunities will emerge as long as you continue moving forward, however slowly and imperfectly. Have hope and courage! The path is often revealed only when you start walking. Keep your head high.
译文:
很高兴我的话能引起你的共鸣。在面对不确定性时,我们其实很容易忽视已经过的路。但请记住,你自己的毅力和复原力可以帮助你扎根。
至于不知道未来会把我们引向何处,这完全是正常的,也是人之常情。事实上,没有人确切地知道未来是什么,也没有人知道他们的道路可能通往哪里。生活总是以意想不到的方式展开。拥有高等学位表明你有能力潜入任何未知领域,并在另一边取得有意义的成就。这是一种力量,当你在你的职业生涯和生活中驾驭接下来的任何事情时,它会对你有好处。
应对不确定性的一些提示:
- 专注于你能控制的事情 — 你的努力、灵活性和对可能性的开放。结果会及时到位的。
- 不要害怕探索不同的选择,即使对你来说是新的。遵循你的好奇心可以带来令人兴奋的新机会。
- 与目前处于你所向往的职业或人生阶段的其他人联系。向他们学习,看看他们是通过什么途径达到目的的。新的想法或联系可能会出现。
- 从问题开始,而不是从答案开始。与其感到压力,要确切地知道你想要什么或你要去哪里,不如开始探索哪些选项让你感兴趣以及为什么。随着时间和经验的积累,你的思路会越来越清晰。
- 记住,如果需要,你总是可以在未来再次改变路径。你现在开始走的路并不决定你其余的旅程。生命的旅程是蜿蜒的,不是一条直线。
要有信心,你现在感到的不确定性不会永远持续下去。保持乐观,跟随你的兴趣,并保持开放和愿意的精神。渐渐地,门会打开,灵感会袭来,未来会让你再次感到更加清晰和充满希望。这只是生命里的一刻,即使是一个困难的时刻,还有更多的篇章等待着你!
你内心有如此的天赋、激情和毅力。相信你有能力驾驭这一切,相信只要你继续前进,无论多么缓慢和不完美,有意义的机会就会出现。要有希望和勇气! 道路往往只有在你开始行动时才会显现。请抬起你的头来。